I was remembering my H's two week trip last October with drinking buddies. He texted one night he had done some "drunken posting on FB" but he said it "didn't really matter after all". Why would he tell me that? I could see the flirting on FB. It didn't really matter b/c we were going to be D in 2 months. Very upsetting.
Then a month later we went as a family for Thanksgiving. He never really said but how could he not help compare the two vacations?
Just realizing your H has similar. The vacation with OW, then a vacation with you and the boys. About the same amount of time apart, too? Interesting.
It's so important you keep being wonderful you, and light and easy and loving. I know you can do it b/c you've been doing that all along!
Keep going! You're doing great! And I'm sure the legs that are standing still...look great too!
I had a funny quote in my head the other day:
Keep standing until you can stand it no more!
Idk...just being silly!
rH
Me54/H47 '08 H is "done" March '12 H moved out Brink of D, December '12 2014 totally reconciled! ...... "I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal." Jim Conway