And is that who you want to be? Does it help you to understand why other's use manipulation? Just another way to take our hurt and put it on someone else.
You had some good realizations about your W at the end of the last thread. She is someone you love/loved and you have children together. Can you view where she is with empathy for what she's been through while recognizing that you may not want to be in a R with her and let her move on?
Figure out who YOU want to be and be that. Let her figure her stuff out.
Move forward.
Get out of her head and into yours.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
