"I Love you but love her too"....WHAT?

[RosaLinda]

Wow that is a difficult call NLT. I think this is the best site, but can see why you would not like OW's H reading your sitch. That might prove pretty uncomfortable. Cadet mentioned a site once, the Hero's Wife or Hero's Spouse. Something like that. I've read lots of relationship books, but most were for women. Marriage Fitness was pretty helpful, but I like Divorce Remedy best because it gives specific concrete instructions. 

I'm sorry your H didn't remember your birthday. Par for the course huh? My H missed my 60th. Made me feel SO crappy because he sent his EA#1, whom he hasn't spoken to in almost 2 years, flowers for her birthday a few days later. I hate hate hate MLC, NLT. And OW. 

You seem pretty calm with OW being here, except for your concerns about your daughter. How do you manage to get so detached? I need all the tips I can get because I know I'll become more and more basket-case-like as my H's second conjugal visit with RT draws closer.