First: I didn’t realize that you have had the children every weekend for a year! I am so impressed by your dedication and this puts your W comment about you taking two days off in some perspective!
Then, Sandi2 did point out some things in her post – again and as expected! This is something I dare have expectations towards. I agree with her that this won’t be the last you have heard from W. She will properly keep coming but sex-control I hadn’t thought off! That’s a good one to remember for you! (And for me if I ever get there!)
I haven’t got that much to offer you at the moment – only all the best and a lot of prayers. You have been and are truly doing great!
I have one question for you and Sandi2. How do you respond to this:
Originally Posted By: Sandi2
I believe the biggest one will be coming on to you for sex.
How do you handle this? Simply turn her down?
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I find it hard to imagine W trying to initiate sex any time soon. Even though she might be getting annoyed at my lack of reply she has said she is done with me. It will take a while for her to maybe turn this into her really pursuing me to prove a point.
I guess I'm going to find out sooner or later if that is the case.
I am curious to what would happen in that situation if the WAS comes onto the LBS and initiates sex. After if sex takes place the LBS carries on as they were and doesn't get sucked in by it all or at least puts a front on, how would the WAS respond/handle that?
I know the WAS is trying to prove they can still get the LBS but is it not a trap to get them on board so they can pull back and deny further sex/R? If the LBS has sex but doesn't fall for the rest what could happen from there?
M36 W31 S4 S2 T5 M4 BD Jan12 S July12 Recon Sep12-Nov12 ILBINILWY Jan13 OM x 2 in 2013 W wants R July 13 I start D. Jan 14. Meet GF Nov 13 Have I changed enough? Jul 14
