Stuck between a rock and a hard place!

[MrBond]

This is getting to be soooo frustrating.

"I'am not in the same place I was six months ago."

How many times does this have to be said until it sinks in with you?! It doesn't matter what YOU feel that has gotten better. It doesn't matter what place YOU think you're in. What matters is how SHE feels! I suggested in EXACT detail what to tell her, but you just glossed over the important details and just gave her your Cliff NOtes version which DOES NOT show that you understand what she needs? The way I told you to handle it would have done so perfectly. But you couldn't even do that small thing.

"I have calmed down and so has W. BUT...... If I do lose it again, I will tell her that I'll move out for sure!"

YOU WERE SUPPOSED TO TELL HER THIS WHEN YOU HAD THE TALK, NOT AFTER! How many times did I tell you that you need to have an EXACT plan of action that you could tell her would happen if you lost it again. But you were lazy and skipped that whole part.

Let me ask you something...how can you "expect" her to think that you've changed and see to her needs when you can't follow simple instructions from the posters here? Have you ever thought that the reason why you've managed to make things worse is because you never followed EXACTLY what people have been posting to you?