That's great! You're so right, patience is difficult especially when you are impatient like I am. I call patience a swear word The other important thing is when you start seeing improvements that your H has towards you, do NOT start losing patience. You must still carry on with the 180 and Sandi's rules. Only when he has made a commitment to you that you can start getting closer to him. This is important because I have been there. I have seen my H getting closer to me and so I got closer to him. The next week he told me he was going to see a solicitor! There's going to be a lot of hurt and heartache, I still get hurt even now, but it's a lot easier to bear. Once you GAL then that's when things start to get easier. You will be riding a roller coaster in the next few months, but the big dipper will soon turn into a little dipper Keep posting on here and we'll be here to support you
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
The other important thing is when you start seeing improvements that your H has towards you, do NOT start losing patience. You must still carry on with the 180 and Sandi's rules. Only when he has made a commitment to you that you can start getting closer to him. This is important because I have been there. I have seen my H getting closer to me and so I got closer to him. The next week he told me he was going to see a solicitor! There's going to be a lot of hurt and heartache, I still get hurt even now, but it's a lot easier to bear. Once you GAL then that's when things start to get easier. You will be riding a roller coaster in the next few months, but the big dipper will soon turn into a little dipper 
