I think with us having such great tools as actually DBing and getting answers to questions on here we have a much better chance at becoming a good spouse.
Our spouses however don't have these tools and they are just "trying again".
Apologies for not knowing but are you two seeing a MC?
M36 W31 S4 S2 T5 M4 BD Jan12 S July12 Recon Sep12-Nov12 ILBINILWY Jan13 OM x 2 in 2013 W wants R July 13 I start D. Jan 14. Meet GF Nov 13 Have I changed enough? Jul 14