Moving forward together from a mess

[cbtdad]

Thanks Urworthy!
That's exactly what I said in MC session about putting a guard up. I am afraid to get hurt again and the trust isn't there yet so I say those things.
W understood it more after we discussed it in there. Counseling is so important. One of the things she has us do is look at each other when we are hurt and tell the other why we are hurt and what we are feeling. It makes a difference.
MC says this is a cycle right now where I am at different level then wife in this marriage. Makes a lot of sense. We spent all afternoon and tonight together and it was great jut being us and not focusing on changes. Just accepting her right now.
MC was right, so far I feel like a weight has been lifted.
We are going to atlanta for a few days this weekend. We will be in same hotel room, same bed for first time since end of November. Should be interesting;)