Keep it up with the appearance changes, it makes you 'mysterious' and he may start to wonder what is going on. You could get a manicure or pedicure, maybe even buy some new clothes. For me, the pedicure was a nice way to relax away from home. Sometimes when my H is acting moody/grumpy and it is bothering me, I will drive to the mall and buy a new dress or something that makes me feel sexy. Your confidence will improve and your H will start to wonder!
M: 8 yrs T:14 Twins:7 S:5 BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013 Mar/Apr/May: MC June: "living in limbo" Sept 12: H moves out Oct 20: reconciling Jan-Feb 2014:MC Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.