Will I eventually get to a point when I know for SURE that I'm ready to make a move with my current M (unless the W gets there first)?
Hi JRG. I am dealing with the same thing as you right now, doubting constantly whether I should stay or leave. I am switching back and forth with my decision every 10 minutes sometimes! When it is time to move on and separate, if that is the case, you will know it is time and be certain. You won't be ping-ponging back and forth anymore, one side will just take over. You wouldn't want to separate unless you were 100% certain.
M: 8 yrs T:14 Twins:7 S:5 BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013 Mar/Apr/May: MC June: "living in limbo" Sept 12: H moves out Oct 20: reconciling Jan-Feb 2014:MC Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.
