Maybe eventually we "process" enough and just spit out the whole thing? Wouldn't that be nice.
And yes, I've thought too about the vasectomy giving H "freedom". Although, while he was with the "first" affair, before I knew of her, he did talk of getting it reversed. Good golly ugh. Go forth and multiply. Now I'm gonna have nightmares. Lol. Like I don't already. Sigh.
Its gotta get better Nero, hang in there hon.
Me 46 H 56 M 22 yrs S22, D20, Twin Ss18
You teach people how to treat you by what you allow. What you stop. And what you reinforce. ~~~~~~~ A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.
