Run and hide your crazy

[mizjjd]

Linda,

Thanks for stopping by

Not that it excuses even a shadow of the cold, but do remember H is Canadian, and a long time veteran of the Franco/Anglo wars.
It did make me think though, there was a school somewhere in the middle east recently that was blown up for teaching Western ideas. And so and so group was saying it was a good thing.... What kind of humans are we to think any slaughter is a good thing simply because it was "them" on the receiving end? Maybe the whole world has MLC.

You KNOW I looked for that ring lol. IDK about winning/losing it regarding the gambling. H usually tells me on and on about his winnings/losings, I can't imagine why a ring would have been excluded. That's why it troubles me so, because he kept it secret. But, its not bothering me right now. Just another leaf on the tree.

Are you sure that is what he understood you to have said, or is this one of those MLC marital re-writes?
I don't know, and I don't know how I could tell? It is what he's said he heard for the last 17 years. Its one of those sitches where if you squint and turn your head juuuust right you can see what the other person sees. Or maybe what they want to see? He has mentioned it before, it came up at first affair revelation, and it came up again this time.

So your H has indisputable proof of your As. Hah. What are you going to do.... can't win for losing.

I know for absolute certain about the "first" (but his second affair) I knew the girl >shudder<. I found out about the real "first" by reading (snooping) H's emails to current ow. I'm thinking he wouldn't have lied to her about that, but who knows? There had been hints about such an event already, and I wasn't really surprised to learn of it. The one he got turned down by I had strongly suspected during that time period. Oh, and I also snooped an email to an old business acquaintance of H's where he opened with "You know I have always liked you, as a friend, and as even more than a friend."

Soooo IDK. IDK how many of these "numerous women" fell under what classification. PA, EA, flirtation? Its a fairly big tree, lots of leaves.

So you are a blue penguin? Lol. Just from "knowing" you on here, I would have to say you are more cuddly than icy

Its kind of hard for me to be objective because I know the "answers". But it is interesting to me that I have changed my mind on the answers since 20 years ago when I first learned it.

My fave color atm is turqoise. I find it intriguing (so many dif shades, some greeny some bluey) calming and pretty.

My animal is anything cute. Red pandas, bears, kittens, (did you google keeshond? my dog? Lol, he's very cute - when he's not barking!) Cute animals make me smile, they are cuddly and sweet.

My water is a lake. Refreshing, relaxing and calming.

My room is just kind of neutral. Calm, no panic. I envision a sort of waiting room.

Have a good night.