It is interesting how perspective changes regarding DBing isn't it? What we think we start detaching for vs what we really end up detaching for.
It has certainly been an education - and it hasn't even been a year. I imagine in another few months yet another facet of this process will show itself.
I hope you are doing ok honey. I do think about you and your sitch. So polar from what I have, but still so hard
(((hugs)))
Me 46 H 56 M 22 yrs S22, D20, Twin Ss18
You teach people how to treat you by what you allow. What you stop. And what you reinforce. ~~~~~~~ A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.
