Thanks for the reply BKS. This is so darn hard anymore. Thing is she is now living some 900 miles from me and wont give me the time of day, You say she will react but, Dont see how she would be reacting when she wont even contact me, and with her family now caring for her I cant see how I can ever get her to talk to me, At this point I plan on going dark since she wont talk anyways. From what I read here that is what I should be doing. I do however send what few pieces of mail comes for her and its not much. I just put it in a big yelloow envelope and send it maybe evey three weeks.
