I couldn't sleep last night and woke up very early and got on the site, I read your last thread in its entirety and here is what i found (and I didn't go back to day one, just two threads over at least a year)
As harsh as this will sound:
You haven't grown a bit
You say you are DBing but I don't see any evidence of it
You have not given your wife any space
Reading your posts make me feel like I am dealing with someone in middle school
I am sorry that this is harsh. I know it is. Until you recognize what you are doing, you don't have a chance to save your M
M 46 H 44 D 12 S 8 M 9 T 11 BD 2/15/13 "Makes sense to stay together" 5/12/13 Agree we are 'healing' 7/13 Definitely Piecing 9/13