Limbo, you need to stop reacting to your H’s actions. I know it is difficult, but you NEED to do it for you. Your H doesn’t know what he wants. The only thing he knows is that he doesn’t want the drama between the two of you. His R with JW is new, so he will be fluctuating back and forth until it gets old. I’m sure there will be lots of drama too, so you need be on the other side of equation, upbeat, happy, and pleasant.


M:50
H:52
S28 (my S from previous marriage)
M:17 + 3
BD: 06/12
S: 06/12 - H works in another state