No. DO NOT make "her feeling connected with you" a priority.

"I understand her need to feel safe s a priority. "

No you don't or else you would have given her the safe word and safety talk. Understanding is pointless without doing.


M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER