Blindsided

[chl0901]

Hi Irons, I just saw your post on here from a couple of days ago and wanted to say thank you for the kind words. It is really hard to not take my H's lack of attraction to me personally, because he used to always tell me how beautiful I am, etc. which of course makes one feel special. To now hear otherwise really hurts.

For the greater part of our relationship (until the past few years), I was in much better shape so I am (and was already) trying to do that for H but also myself, because I do take pride in my appearance and had let myself go somewhat. Thank you again for the sweet words and best of luck with your sitch. I will keep up with yours as well!