Hi planet, I am a newbie and don't have any advice to give but was reading your thread and wanted to stop by and send you some support. I agree with others that this OM sounds creepy and he must be in lala land to think this kind of relationship with your W and coming around like he does in front of you is okay. Best of luck with your sitch! I will check back for your updates.
Me: 27 H: 27 Together: 11, M: 3 S 2 BD: 06/24/13 Living together H: EA - unknown current status Read: DB, 5LL (slowly reading DR) Back and forth we go...