I want to stress that the needs of not wanting to be connected is NOT something you should be doing. Her number one need right now since your erratic behavior, is to feel "safe".
I'm not sure I understand Bond, do you mean I should be trying to make her feel connected? Yes or no for clarity
I understand her need to feel safe s a priority.
THANK YOU!
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