BRNR, I'm going to share some advice that I received from my lawyer a long time ago...if you give him a copy of the tax return, be sure to "black" out your social security number. You do not know who will be reviewing the return once your h receives a copy of it.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
