Yes Wonka, those mistakes are patterns all right. And tapping on the pain or fear does a really good job of avoiding the development of anger and resentment.

Bets, I'm doing well. Thanks for checking. smile The holiday was, oddly, a bit rough since I didn't have plans.

I had been slowly working toward getting another date. She turned out to be unavailable (and I don' just mean for Saturday night). Now, all the distractions are cleared away. It's down to just me in my head. That's feeling pretty peaceful, actually.


Me - 54
P - 59
Together 5 yrs
She left 4/2012