PatientMan. I know how you feel.
My situation is different from yours but at least my WAW was truly honest about it and nothing really inappropriate materialize.

You detachment is truly amazing. Will be learning from you.

M35 XW34
D5 D4
M 6years T 10years
Bomb 5/2013
Joint Petition signed 6/2013
Moved out end of 8/2013
Court Hearing of Joint Petition 9/2013
D finalized in 3 months - no news yet