Am I ready for this?

[Mtnman]

I spoke to my attorney. She's a family friend so we are very frank with each other. She isn't a dber but gave me the same advice. Let w present you with separation papers, then we will look at them for 30 days, file for an extension for another 30 days. She told me not to worry about pushing from my end, it won't mean a thing.

Basically, wait her out.

Of all the things w said in her email, the one that hurt the most was her claim she didn't spend more time with the boys because I was always home and didn't offer to leave. She stated it was awkward to be here with me when our relationship is over. I think someone is choking on a big helping of guilt.

Thanks rH and T^2!