Thanks PatientMan for caring.
I know now for sure his intentions are. He had developed special feelings for W. He never confessed to W but his attentiveness is well received.
I spoke to W shortly after I returned. She had also developed feelings for him. She felt very comfortable with him. Funnily, W never mentioned anything about our D to him.
I let her know that there are boundaries and limits which he can move around the house. But she thought otherwise. Well I suppose when you in that 'zone', you're in that 'zone'. Something's become acceptable. It's all about their physical posturing when talking.
The 'not quite OM' is quite a special guy, kinda like those 2 guys from 'twilight'. I do feel I could learn quite a lot from this guy. Yes they do exist. I'm the 180 of this guy. Haha.
I told him to back off. But he's unwilling to do so. At the end I just left. I let him know how inappropriate it was. He said he just wants what's best for W and feels I'm not treating her right.


M35 XW34
D5 D4
M 6years T 10years
Bomb 5/2013
Joint Petition signed 6/2013
Moved out end of 8/2013
Court Hearing of Joint Petition 9/2013
D finalized in 3 months - no news yet