Thanks PatientMan for caring. I know now for sure his intentions are. He had developed special feelings for W. He never confessed to W but his attentiveness is well received. I spoke to W shortly after I returned. She had also developed feelings for him. She felt very comfortable with him. Funnily, W never mentioned anything about our D to him. I let her know that there are boundaries and limits which he can move around the house. But she thought otherwise. Well I suppose when you in that 'zone', you're in that 'zone'. Something's become acceptable. It's all about their physical posturing when talking. The 'not quite OM' is quite a special guy, kinda like those 2 guys from 'twilight'. I do feel I could learn quite a lot from this guy. Yes they do exist. I'm the 180 of this guy. Haha. I told him to back off. But he's unwilling to do so. At the end I just left. I let him know how inappropriate it was. He said he just wants what's best for W and feels I'm not treating her right.
M35 XW34 D5 D4 M 6years T 10years Bomb 5/2013 Joint Petition signed 6/2013 Moved out end of 8/2013 Court Hearing of Joint Petition 9/2013 D finalized in 3 months - no news yet