Are you that general with what is in your heart or do you get specific?

I just need the holy spirit to grant me wisdom in this confusing time. I need sleep......

Me 32
W 30
Married 11
D10, S6
BD#1 January of 09
OM#1 2005
OM#2 Dec 08
OM#3 March/April of 09
Back together August 09
OM#4 May 13
W moves out June 2013
BD#2 June 21 2013
Filed July 2013
D final in Oct