Not to be ignored, needs compliments not criticism .needs to feel needed,,needs to feel special and appreciated,wants a best friend and a partner, needs to feel compassion,needs to feel like she is good enough,needs to feel connected.
But have you done the work yet to BE what she needs?
I've done a lot of work on myself, but Im a work in progress..I'am clear about what she needs.
What are you doing now that is so completely different that she might be shocked and curious? What are your 180s?
My 180s are to be supportive, not critical.be complimentary, give her space and time, be a great father, do not ignore her, try to be her friend and partner.
What mistakes has your sitch pointed out to you that you are 100% committed to changing from this day forward, for you, regardless of whether she stays with you or not?
All of the above!
Me:46 W:40 M:10 T:17 D:9 S:6 BD:12/11 ILYBINILWY:8/12 Served 2/13 I moved out 2/13 I moved back 6/13 W moved out 9/13
