I really, really like your IC. Seems he is a DB-type of counselor who also works with your issues individually.
H's LL is acts of service. Why?
When you do AOS to H, his cup fills up and he feels loved. Be judicious with this approach as you don't want to smother him. or appear too pursuing. Perhaps you can start small as tackling the one area that needs to be straightened up and organized. Just do it and H will hopefully notice it.
Seems he is a DB-type of counselor who also works with your issues individually. 