One month down, zero casualties

[RosaLinda]

Good thing you warned us to put on T2's safety goggles Raine!

"So anyway after the talk about his parents could stay here no matter what, we started talking about where everyone would sleep and he said he could sleep in the boys room. Then he proceeded to spent about three hours organizing a game and media closet. If we D he would take all of that with him, so interesting to me he just spent all that time to make it perfect here."

Making that game closet perfect IS interesting, a good good sign! But....why would he sleep in the boys' room when his parents come? Wouldn't he rather be in with you? How will he explain to them why he is sleeping with the boys? Although it is so far in the future as MLC goes, they change daily. Hourly. Minute-ly, if that is a word!

" He is telling ow that he has to stay here for awhile. That he has figured things out and it's going to take time to get to the place he can move out. He talks like this is a financial thing. That has nothing to do with it. Nothing stopping him there and he doesn't know what the finances are anyway so I don't know what he would be calculating. But at the same time he is saying when is it going to be about him and being able to tell the ones he cares about that he loves them. This is so confusing to me, so he must be hell-a-confused."

WHAT! Did he actually tell you this? Which OW is this LOL? Holy cow. But listen Raine, this is just more lying MLC double talk. He has no desire to leave, but wants to keep his OW on the leash. My H does the same. His RT gets so angry with him that he (so far) refuses to leave me, and has not initiated divorce proceedings.

Cadet was right -- TIME IS ON OUR SIDE! Especially when they are still at home with us. You're doing great, I am trying to do better LOL! You're a good role model for dealing with a stay at home MLCer!