Originally Posted By: MrBond
" Giving you space, drive 4 hours a week to see the boys, gave her what she asks for, money for the boys."

This needs to stop.


What part needs to stop?

I love hanging out with my children. its 30 min each way and I visit them 4 times a week. I am planning to move closer within the next year. I have a fear that they will forget about me if I see them any less than that.

With the sale of the home, she got 90% of everything inside. The kids were with her so it didnt seem right to take the furniture, pots, dishes, electronics ect.

No getting around the money, there's a chart...Income + 2 kids = 35% of my net income plus other expenses. Unless I go for equal custody. I never went that route due to avoiding rocking the boat. I will request 50/50 in the future. Im getting mixed opinions on this. Some say you have a better chance when there older and other say do it now or it will never happen. Depends on your lawyer.


H 37
WAW 32
S 4 (Autistic)
S 2
Together 11 years
Married 6
Bombshell Dec 1 2012
House sold, flying solo June 1 2013.