You might have hit on something about the nature of your prayer.
When I changed mine to the ridiculously simple, my prayer was answered: Please change what is in MY heart.
I got that in spades, and it was humbling. Now whenever I have difficulty communicating with someone, I make this prayer. It absolutely puts me in their shoes and helps me find the words that they can hear from me so we are able to communicate.
Good luck!
Betsey
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."
