I'm trying to face this, sometimes successfully...other times not so much. With my dad added in, I've gotta low streak going. Bigtime. At least now I have an OPTION of someplace to go (& with my dogs), so it's a small relief. I'm gonna try to stay here as long as possible..not sure I'm up for a new state & different lifestyle at this moment, but I'm going to research the area , consider the reality if it & think on it more. See if I can grow a pair, lol. In the meantime I just have to remember "believe none of what they say, half of what they do".
As for his job...it WAS a great one. He moved up the ranks, was respected, ran an entire building with 60 employees under him. He relocated,we bought a house the Co. put the down on to keep him, then the Co.went beck to where we started out. The house is underwater so we can't sell it, if anyone would even buy...and the house we rented prior from my dad for 18 years it's now rented too my bro & his family, so H has no place to live. Just before he had to go back his mom rented her spare room to her other son...after personally promising it to my H. This us added stress. Just after relocating back to the original company,a new manager took over the company...he dislikes my H & put him on a tiny project with no work and half the hours. Hours of income we NEEDED to support one household, let alone"two". So H gets more stress piled on with that. H is also being discriminated against. It's all crazy.
The 401k is something we had talked about,before the BD, but it got shoved aside with the relo & everything. I honestly wish he'd get laid off, it'd be the best option in this situation. Never thought if say that. But them he'd have some income via EDD, severance&401k, plus retaining options since his job was offshored.
H48 M46 T26 M25 S25 D21 10/4/12 BD - ILYBINILWY, S 10/7/12 H Leaves, works 2 hours away H Done 1/13 H tells S he wants D 2/13 NO R talk since - nothing filed We live together weekends
