But that isn't quite true. You have addressed the phone/txt thing in the past. Do you think addressing it again will acheive a different result? I can picture your W's reaction.
Not to sound harsh, but do you think she cares how you feel?
Does your sponser address detatchment? I think one way to look at is not giving power over to someone else.
Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet. --Jean Jacques Rousseau.