He probably hasn't said anything because he's not worried about what anyone else thinks of his behavior. He is in an affair "fog" - meaning all he can "see" is his A, not you or the kids or his mother.
Tell your MIL that the two of you are having some problems (because she obviously knows something's up) and that you're working on things. Don't give her a lot of details. So I'm wondering if I still have a chance to save my M?
Yes Kelela, you do. But its not going to be today, or tomorrow either.
You are doing good. Remember the road is loooooooooooooooooong. Are you the little voice asking "Are we there yet?" Before the car's even out of the driveway?
Keep breathing. What are some GALs you've thought of? I haven't seen you write much about YOU lately.
Me 46 H 56 M 22 yrs S22, D20, Twin Ss18
You teach people how to treat you by what you allow. What you stop. And what you reinforce. ~~~~~~~ A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.
