Well, not so much that "I AM" any of those things, but because H is soooooo overwhelmed, that that is how I may be coming across, just more nattering in his ear. The first thing is to remove myself, allow more space, and to only answer his questions, when questions arise. Do not offer advice. To wait until he asks the questions. He also suggests for me to wear new clothes, try diff hairstyles, perfume, etc. To switch it up often. The thing is... I've never let myself go. I am attractive and don't know how much more to play it up. LOL. I can't quite go to work on vehicles dressed like I am going out to a club! Now THAT would turn his head!
Any advice?
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
