I was told by my sponsor to throw that word out. Disrespect. Respect is something you earn.
I think Bond is saying I let her do all these things without saying a thing to her. Which honestly I thought that was part of detachment. Not letting her actions and words effect me. I'm pretty confused as of late. I have strong feelings of filing or at least telling my W how it makes me feel when she txt guys and hides it from me etc..