So the guy has come forward and apologized. That's good that he recognizes his behavior is inappropriate and is polite enough to apologize. I suggest you still talk to him, but you don't need to be rude, just firm. You don't need to empathize with his position either, just defend your own turf. You don't need to tell him how YOU feel either, just stick to the facts: what is and isn't okay with you regarding YOUR wife and home and family.
Regarding this:
Originally Posted By: planet
3) She thinks all those positives were just pretend. at least she convinced herself so.
All you can do is show her, over time, that your changes are real. It is going to take consistent action over the long haul.
-PM
M:12y - BD:12/11 - D:6/13 - 4Ds
"The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy." -MLK Jr.
