Bond what is your opinion on OM stopping by. It is a little tricky. They definitely have been friends since 14. They definitely txt more then my liking and its hidden. People will say on here you're not "detached" if you notice the txting at all. I mean c'mon seriously. We live under same roof and she obviously told the guy to stop by and say hi. She tells me there is zero attraction and he is a life long friend. But the fact is this he tried to get with her while we were separated. I find the behavior unacceptable and I base it on empathy.
If I do tell her my feelings on it she will say see you haven't changed. You still monitoring my phone etc..
and I am sure there will be blow back and tantrums.
