Run and hide your crazy

[RosaLinda]

Lord J, your H is also SO confused. Nero and I were comparing their lack of feeling to Novocaine that you get for dental work. But to say "It's just Quebec, no major loss" -- hold crappola. That is COLD.

Hmmmm, maybe he forgot to put the ring back in the hidey hole? Did you look in his pockets? If it does not show back up, I bet it means he won and lost it gambling.

"And now comes the bad part. I went home and told this to H. But he didn't hear me. He heard.
I thought I wanted to have sex while I was on bed rest, and before you had the vasectomy. But now that you've had the vasectomy I don't want you any more.
The above equaled a starting gun on the race for "numerous women".
I have apologized and explained the true meaning of what I told him 4 million times. But he was imprinted by what he heard, and there's no erasing it. Of course, he didn't tell me at the time how he took what I said, it only came up with the revelation of the As. By that time the imprint was deep."

Are you sure that is what he understood you to have said, or is this one of those MLC marital re-writes? It reminds me of something my H said to me. I asked him why he tells everyone I have been cheating on him for 38 years, he could not possibly believe that. His answer was yes, he knows I have because I told him about one of my married co-workers having a crush on one of the attorneys when I worked at a big law firm for a while, no affair, just a crush. And also because when he was in the hospital during one of his illnesses, one of the male nurses asked to speak to me privately and put his arm around me. I told my H immediately that the nurse wanted to apologize for something nasty he'd said when my S27 got drunk at his senior prom and was taken to the ER years earlier -- my co-worker was horrible and said that I was a bad mother or else my son would not have been drinking at 17 years old. Except...his son just got drunk at his own prom, and he remembered how nasty he'd been, and wanted to apologize. That is my H's proof of my infidelity. And my mother in law says he told everyone in their family. Yikes. Maybe since your H never mentioned this before, he is just re-writing your statement to him about his vasectomy and not wanting to ML? You don't really know that he's been on a "race for numerous women" for the past 17 years, do you J? Maybe it was just that one one-night stand? God I hope so. I hate to see you in so much pain over something that might not even be true.

Thanks for the explanation about the game. My answers are SO confusing though. Not at all what I expected:
I see myself as blue, cool, calm and icy!???
Others see me as a penguin, cute, cuddly and sleek?!!??
I thnk of sex like the ocean -- calming, wet and wild
I see death as lonely, calm and echoy. Yikes.
What did your answers tell you about yourself?