Except he isn't because they sure got that pattern of craziness down pat.
I very much believe that we all come to the best decisions for us in time. Cadet says in his opening posts that the "time is a gift" and at first, I took that as meaning wait long enough and MLC will play itself out. Now, I think that you have the gift of time when your H is making no sudden movements. You are in control of whether you stay or go. The lovely part of them not paying attention is that you don't have to be too secretive with your plans
