I have a question I would really like to ask H why he hasnt told his mom about us getting a D yet and also he hasn't brought up the D talk since my last melt down on him. The only reason I'm asking this is because MIL keeps asking me what's going on; and all I'm telling her is she needs to have a conversation with her son about what's going on. I feel like its not my place to tell her that her son is cheating on me with OW and he decided to leave his family. So I'm wondering if I still have a chance to save my M? I have backed off a lot in the last week. I don't text or call him unless its important I don't even wait till he gets home anymore. But I don't know cause we really don't talk that much anymore. I miss the way we use to be.


M:42
H:37
M:14yrs
S:13; S:9
Found out PA:8/2012
2nd PA & still w/OW:4/2013
H asked for D:6/2013
H moved out: 8/2013
H & OW moved in together: 8/2013