Stuck between a rock and a hard place!

[MrBond]

"I got confused about my W's needs because after the letters she wrote to me about how she felt, it morphed into her needs to be divorced"

I don't know HOW MANY TIMES I HAVE TO TELL YOU and the conversation between us became a tug of war about that.
Once she decided she wanted D, the problem became that I wasn't honoring her wishes for D, not that I wasn't taking care of her needs from the past. I will reread her letters and your advice again.

Well to be real, you never bothered to bring up the point about the safe word which was as EXACT as advice as anyone could give you. But you don't follow through.

I'm sorry that I wasn't able to address that in the small time frame I had. Not trying to make excuses again,"

"but I know I cannot control how you feel or act."

Don't even try DBing me. DB your W.