Stuck between a rock and a hard place!

[dorightman]

Mr.Bond, I will respond to you even though you seem to be so frustrated with me that you want to abandon this thread and encourage others not to try to help me. I'm sorry you feel this way. I'am doing the best I can.

Here we go again. Seriously? I don't know how many times I SPECIFICALLY mention what your W's needs are. AND she SPECIFICALLY outlined everything for you in a long letter. You're just not LISTENING.

I'am listening, I got confused about my W's needs because after the letters she wrote to me about how she felt, it morphed into her needs to be divorced and the conversation between us became a tug of war about that.
Once she decided she wanted D, the problem became that I wasn't honoring her wishes for D, not that I wasn't taking care of her needs from the past. I will reread her letters and your advice again.

Well to be real, you never bothered to bring up the point about the safe word which was as EXACT as advice as anyone could give you. But you don't follow through.

I'm sorry that I wasn't able to address that in the small time frame I had. Not trying to make excuses again, there really wasn't much time as I had to travel on business. I guess there's no excuse. I will trey to do better next time.

I'am not trying to be disrespectful of you or trying not to listen to you. In fact, I'am listening to you, but made that mistake. I hope you will not abandon my switch, but I know I cannot control how you feel or act.