AJ, my feelings about being D'd and getting a fair settlement are unrelated. Unfortunately for me, I had a bad attorney for most of the process. She advised me not to accept any of the offers that were made and I followed her advice. My current attorney would have advised me to accept all of them with minor tweaks. A lot of opportunities were missed. Now I'm facing my biggest fear, losing my house. I will be forced into a living situation that is not my choice. My life just keeps changing at the hands of another. It's just wrong, but I have to accept it. Alternatively, I came up with a plan B that is my choice. Now my H is standing in the way of that and we will have to fight it out in court. At ths point, I really don't know what he wants. He keeps changing his mind and nothing is acceptable.
