Mtn, I'm so sorry to hear of the recent bump in your sitch. Yes, I said bump. Your M isn't over, and there is still hope.

You made mention a few posts back about "if she is done, I want too..."

Even if she thinks she is, your W is not done. Neither are you.

You received some great advice from RH. Please don't do anything until you talk to Chuck.

Don't focus on the recent upset, look at the long term goal. Devise your plan from there and stick to it.

Definitely set up and maintain your boundaries. Do this and you won't feel like W is taking advantage of you. Be strong my friend.

M: A really long time.
Crisis: 5 years.
She's still worth it.

Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl