Definitely will keep on being emotionally available to Ex, but making sure I'm not needy (or doing things that come across as pressure). Sometimes I slip up! I feel like I let my guard down too much and then I get needy, so trying to keep my feelings in check as best I can.
I hope I am making some positive movement in my situation! Your words have given me great encouragement. Will try to take notice of positive reactions from the Ex. I have a separate journal where I'll outline my goals for the month (general goals, then concrete short-term goals, followed by ways that I will know if Ex is coming around). I've been doing it now since late November and it helps me to follow a concrete plan, but also see what I should be working on more!
Had to double check which book I have--I have Divorce Remedy. Should I also get DB too? I also bought the Sex Starved Marriage for my tablet a while back (though it would be useful to read). I wish DR was an e-book! Then I could discreetly read it on my tablet, instead of waiting until theEx is out so I can read it lol
