Okay. I misunderstood when you said he helped himself to one of your kid's rooms. What does that mean?

Do not take the following as advice, but *I* would not be able to resist the urge to have a private conversation with the young man the next time he is over at *my* house. It appears as though your W is flaunting this guy right in front of you, and you're just capitulating. *I* couldn't do that, but I'm NOT telling you that you should do anything.

Smarter people than me may come along and give you proper DB'ing tips. Pay attention. There are a lot of caring and knowledgeable people here.

All the best.

-PM

M:12y - BD:12/11 - D:6/13 - 4Ds

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