"Communication has been tough. Not wanting to make excuses, I really do want to address my w's needs. Just not sure what they are and how to address them."

Here we go again. Seriously? I don't know how many times I SPECIFICALLY mention what your W's needs are. AND she SPECIFICALLY outlined everything for you in a long letter. You're just not LISTENING.

"Sounds like she needs a D and she's unhappy I don't give it to her yet."

Go back and read WHY she wants a D and WHY she's UNHAPPY.

"Just have to Gal and worry about myself for now, until she wants me to address her needs."

So frustrating. You CAN address her needs now. YOU just don't need to tell her that you are and just do it. I have to admit that I am getting extremely frustrated and I'm getting extremely tired of you CONSTANTLY asking what your W's needs are when they have been addressed time and time and time and time and time and time and time again. Go back and read the past posts.

Well to be real, you never bothered to bring up the point about the safe word which was as EXACT as advice as anyone could give you. But you don't follow through. I encourage others to not post to you as I feel they would be wasting their breath.


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2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER