Well, I was just thinking about MIL's POV. She lost her hubby. Maybe she doesn't wanna push away this daughter even tho she isn't making good decisions.

After my FIL died about 10 years ago, my H's sis and mom started making a lot of crazy choices. Just without an anchor.

I'm so sorry Mtnman. This is a difficult path.

Me54/H47
'08 H is "done"
March '12 H moved out
Brink of D, December '12
2014 totally reconciled!
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"I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal."
Jim Conway