That's a really tough spot, Mtnman. Feels like she is just playing with you.
The property issue is tough. We had a lot of back and forth about ours for the D agreement (we have 20 acres and a unique house).
Maybe you can breathe and think a little tonight with some time alone. Where will she stay now that MIL has told her to leave?
Me54/H47 '08 H is "done" March '12 H moved out Brink of D, December '12 2014 totally reconciled! ...... "I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal." Jim Conway